Get Ex Back — Even if They’ve Moved On

September 7, 2012 6:05 am

Trying to get an ex back can be the most difficult thing you have ever done in your life. Being in a hard relationship is certainly no walk in the park, but it can be a little easier than feeling like you’ve lost the love of your life for good. Some evaluation of your relationship is essential to determine if you should move forward from this point with the same person.

First of all, there is a difference between love and feeling a sense of familiarity with the person. Far too often we fall into certain patterns that feel comfortable — such as being with the same person for an extended period of time. Some people actually consider this familiarity as a reason to breakup. They can’t stand to be with the the same person day after day, when there are other people out there. Still others wouldn’t have things any other way. It is this incompatibility that causes many couples to split in the first place.

No matter which situation you are in, you need to figure out if the two of you are truly in love. Unfortunately, there are cases of one-sided love where you feel like you have met the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, but they don’t feel the same way. That’s why you need to do a true evaluation of the situation. Consider whether or not the breakup was difficult for your ex partner.

Some people are quick to point to the presence of a new relationship as evidence that the other person has completely moved on. This is not always the case. Sometimes people think they want something new and different, but find that YOU were what they wanted all along. They may try to fill the void with a new person, but it doesn’t compete with the real thing! Unfortunately, knowing that their ex is dating someone new causes many people to give up altogether — effectively ending things with the love of their life without giving it a fair fight.

Luckily, you are not going to let that happen. You can get your ex back if you know the two of you are meant to be together. Don’t worry — that doesn’t mean you are going to have to become stalker crazy! There are certain steps you can take to get right with yourself, and feel better as an individual before you even consider joining as a couple once again.

The good news is that after you have done this evaluation of yourself and your relationship, the chances are very good that you can get your ex back forever. It’s time to drag yourself out of the self-pity, and take steps that will help remedy the situation.

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