Secrets of Getting an Ex Back Into Your Arms — For Good This Time

Secrets of Getting an Ex Back Into Your Arms — For Good This Time

By this point, you may have read several different things that deal with getting an ex back. You may have even asked friends or family members for advice. Unfortunately, the chances are very good that you’re feeling very confused right now, and don’t know where to turn.

The good news is that you can breathe a sigh of relief! It IS VERY possible to win your ex back for good. It doesn’t matter how things ended or how hopeless everything might seem right now, you can turn this into a positive, workable relationship once again.

I’m going to caution you that this is going to take some time. This isn’t good news for you to hear, because you feel that time is of the essence (and you’re right!) The difficulty here is that if you push things too fast you can erase your chances. That brings us to the first secret…let your ex go; for now! This is hard to think about, but it’s the right thing.

If you’re used to holding on, you are probably smothering them. Breaking up can be hard for both parties, but it is made even more difficult if you talk to one another all the time. All this does is open up negative feelings. You may also be fighting all the time. This does nothing for you as a couple, and it does nothing for you as individuals.

Another secret to getting an ex back is slyly planning a period of reconnection. After you have given one another enough space, you’ll probably feel like you can get together casually just to catch up. This is very non-threatening, and is a great window of opportunity for you. Once again, it’s essential not to rush things! Take it slow, and make sure that you don’t bring up getting back together until the timing is absolutely right.

There are some very subtle things you can do to open those thoughts again. Touching in a certain way can bring back a flood of positive memories for both of you. It can almost feel like no time has passed, and you have been in each other’s arms all along. Subtle suggestions are key as you open their mind more and more to the fact that you belong together. If you do this right, they will